No more "heroes"

A father writes about his son's death in Iraq.

At 10:45 a.m. two Marines showed up at our door. After collecting himself for what was clearly painful duty, the lieutenant colonel said: “Your son is a true American hero.” Since then, two reactions to Augie’s death have compounded the sadness. At times like this, people say, “He died a hero.” I know this is meant with great sincerity. We appreciate the many condolences we have received and how helpful they have been. But when heard repeatedly, the phrases “he died a hero” or “he died a patriot” or “he died for his country” rub raw....

Though it hurts, I believe that his death -- and that of the other Americans who have died in Iraq -- was a waste.